Here are my tea party food ideas for you. Planning a simple yet elegant feast? A tea party, though very European, is putting America in a frenzy of late. Think about prim and proper ladies with their hair set in glamorous fascinators set in Alice-in-Wonderland-esque room where vintage items from tea cups to dishware abound. But do you know what’s best about organizing your own tea party? Sticking to your own budget plan and favorite finger foods, of course!